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Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Sis Is This Your Man? Things To Consider Before Joining The Group


(side note: I've heard about the multiple groups and now I think the police are involved due to the content in some of the groups). They've made different groups for different cities/states. I hadn't been in any of them so I don't know the full scope of these groups, but I get the gist. I even heard that men have formed their own group...




















Anyhoo, the only problem I have with these groups is there is no pedophile & pedophile apologists exposure group. I'd gladly vote to do away with all groups if it meant that we can have that one. They've been sheltered & protected for far too long. We preach to "mind your business" and the only time that we obey this sermon is when it comes to rape/sexual assault/pedophile culture. But I'm getting off topic. This is a very entertaining article and brings up very valid arguments. Enjoy...




Sis Is This Your Man? Things To Consider Before Joining The Group

Posted on November 17, 2017, at 3:09 p.m.


#TakeMeToTheKing because #SisIsThisYourMan is going to result in repentance, resurrection and rolling the heck out! Time to meet at the altar with tea because the sisters are snatching edges and bringing forth the demon of darkness to light exposure. Let me start off with some background. For the past couple of years, the “Sis Is This Your Man?” groups and other similar groups have been popping up over social media. One group in the U.S. has nearly 300,000 members and last night, a Caribbean group got over 14,000 members and started trending. The premise is simple – post a photo of someone’s significant other and see if other people claim that they are in a relationship with that person too. There are tons of groups that have popped up across the U.S., many of them grouped based on the city. Needless to say, there are some consequences when you get involved in these types of groups and it’s not just the vast amount of time you will waste scrolling through, praying you don’t see someone you know, or even yourself. So here are 10 things to consider before jumping in. If you join, you may learn that



Your Man Is Gay













You love his neat ways, attention to detail, that smooth skin and those manicured nails. But when you post his pic in the group and the tricks and the dicks are on it, you are not prepared to accept the fact that he’s not just cheating, but he’s cheating on you with another man. Some women are prepared to handle another woman but they are not ready to imagine their man catfishing as a fish. So now, you realize your entire relationship was a fraud and instead of wondering what she’s got that you don’t your world is about to end because now everyone knows he’s bisexual or worse, just using you to hide his true gay truth.



Your Man is Being Set Up














Your Man is Being Set Up – Some people are cruel and vicious and hate to see a great relationship evolving. So they will go on your profile, steal a photo of your partner and post it in there simply to stir up trouble. They will allege he is in a relationship so that you can dump him and they can sashay in and swipe him up then laugh at you to your face for being the fool who took the bait. So please, make sure the allegation is a fact before you run off and tell that man off… or worse.



Your Man is All Our Man


















Stop the faux shock. You know your man heaux ain’t loyal. He has more women than King Solomon had concubines, he makes no apologies and you have the ring but you are babysitting the child he had two years into your marriage. You have the house, the car, you’re holding out on sex because he can get it anywhere and you have been told he’s a dog but you are the one who will happily cook the steak and lay out the doggie bed and purchase the flea powder. You know he’s going to go in the group and when he walks through the door, you keep on scrolling and think about what he’s going to buy for you for Christmas. Chances are you're the one reading the credit card statement noticing the he's buying five of the same items from the same store. You're also the one buying the Christmas gifts for the extra kids. You all know about each other. You're a sister wife. Get out of the group and y'all work together to figure out how to properly rotate your poly lifestyle none of you will admit to.


Your Man is Going to Cut You Off






















Y’all side heauxs ain’t loyal and loyalty has a price. If you are someone’s sidechick and you’re living a fairly okay life, you being in such a group and making public declarations after you swore your discretion is a sure way to go from sidechick to nothing at all. If that’s your life, that’s your life but when you agree to be a dirty little secret, you better listen to Xscape and that’s just how you should keep it… never let ‘em know, never let show. Y’all want those Olivia Pope and Mary Jane benefits without putting in the work. Get you some wine and popcorn and back up out of that group before you lose your benefits.



Your Man Has Been Bad All Along















Do you really need a group to let you know that your man is not going to be behaving anytime soon? His own mother told you that you can do better, his sister low key tries to hint to you to dump him and you know you can do better but you're in love with the idea of being in a 'relationship'. Stop scrolling and figure out if you really have the energy to deal with him. You know the only thing he can do for you is give you heartache, an STD and an excuse. Don't claim him in the groups. You'll get laughed at because he never claims you, not even on his social media pages.


To read the rest, click on this link: Buzzfeed: Sis Is This Your Man?




Outside of being addicted to drama, I don't know why else these groups exist. I get it - tired of being played, tired of sharing, etc. but other than gossip and embarrassment, what's the point? What are you hoping to accomplish? If you're in the group or if you created one of the groups, we'd like to hear from you.


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