Man, listen...
I've listened to conversations about this. The girl doesn't want him, she just wants to make his girl look stupid. And he obliges. Or she thinks that he's going to treat her, side chick, the same way that he treats his girlfriend.
All of this drama and swapping just so she can say "why she out here claiming him, he was with me last night" or "look at her walking down the street whistling, meanwhile, her man been texting me" She wants bragging rights. What's the prize? Where's the prize? How is that working out for you?
There's some kind of mythological prize or high-five or underground hood prize for the humiliation of a sister. Guys aren't exempt either. There's a magical crown amongst them for being able to ease a girl away from a seemingly solid relationship & then calling the guy a chump.
All I see is unhealthy behavior and zero healing being passed from person to person, relation to relation, family to family and generation to generation. A lot of hurt people hurting people. It's as if love is a curse. It's as if love is equivalent to having the cooties. Please do not be fooled. Love, in it's truest form ( or as close as we can get as humans) is beautiful. And it is to be cherished and protected and to be given just as much as it's received, if not more.
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